comments 06.05.2009 Paul Shuteyev @ General, Internet Marketing Strategies

Online Dating Techniques 2009: Tips for Men and Women

Online DatingOnline Dating For Single Men

No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of women out there eager to meet you and eager for your company…whether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want.  If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started.  The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs.  There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs.  I don’t recommend the free sites.  The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small.  A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself.   Now you are all set.  Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends.  You don’t want to appear that desperate.  Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you.  New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you.

Online Dating For the Single Women

Life isn’t fair. Men get all the breaks. You’ve devoted all of your 20’s to getting your career off the ground. Not that you haven’t been dating…you have, but not seriously. Now here you are…30 something and there is no long term relationship in sight. You can actually hear your biological clock ticking. You have a precious few years to find a man to fall in love with, make him fall in love with you, get married, and have a baby or its lights out. You already know all of the men in your social circle. Not that they aren’t nice guys…some of them…but none of them are your soul mate. What’s a girl to do?

Consider online dating. You have the opportunity to read hundreds of profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in search of that “someone” that will be right for you. Maybe he will live in the same city you do…maybe he will live across the country or even in another country altogether. You aren’t limited to only those men that you come in contact with personally. The possibilities are almost endless.

“Is online dating safe”, you ask. “Aren’t the online dating sites made up entirely of perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes in assorted shapes and sizes?” the answer is, no they aren’t. Not anymore anyway. That was true when online dating first came on the scene but now it is mainstream. It’s as safe as you make it using common sense and sound judgment. Use the same caution that you would when meeting any stranger. Don’t give your real name, address or phone number until you feel safe doing so. Don’t rush into a face-to-face meeting until you are confident and then make the first meeting in a public place and during daylight hours. Give it a try…Mr. Right might be a few mouse clicks away.

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Written by: Paul Shuteyev

I am an internet-marketing specialist.


Responses (27) on "Online Dating Techniques 2009: Tips for Men and Women"

  1. You cant play on broken strings
    You cant feel anything…
    That your heart dont want to feel…

    mmm, love this song, so amazing!

    It’s great you mix marketing articles with such ones :)

  2. Dating tips for making you’re online dating filled with fun and excitement. Online Tips

  3. Caren Willey

    I’m convinced of your previous relationship experience how you write such articles!

    Looks useful.. I’m single now, maybe I should try some of your tips.


  4. Online dating is fake dating… that’s what I’m thinking bout it!

  5. Oh, few people grabbed this article, nice :) thanks for linking!

  6. 30 something and there is no long term relationship in sight. You can actually hear your biological clock ticking.

    And internet solves this problem? NO WAY!

  7. Is it possible to find hot sexy single girl over the internet? I dont think so… Dating websites are full of girls, but they are far from hot’n’sexy girls.

  8. I wonder why you do not write about sex or smth similar – these sex-related topics are extremely popular novadays!

  9. Good post–you’re right about a lot of things. Online Dating is here to stay and the more comfortable you are doing it, the better your chances of meeting your soulmate.

    I am John, Founder of Dating-profile, we write dating profiles for people. Check out our company and you can write me personally if you want.

    Keep up the good work!


  10. Respect as you proceed to get us what we need!

  11. 2 John G.:

    Thanks, John, let’s keep in touch! 😉

  12. 2 Jil:

    Internet helps to cross this psichological border… when you’re 30 and you have no stable relationships in sight, you fell a lil bit disappointed. And internet helps you to feel more comfortable while looking for the right guy.

  13. This post will help lot of singles. Start your own dating site and you will find out if online dating works.

  14. 2 James:

    Wow, big thanks bro! I’m keen on relationship topics, but own dating website is too much for me :)

  15. Men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Know what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear and that they convey what you mean. It’s not fair to flirt with someone for the fun of it – unless they are obviously flirty themselves. Flirting for fun is fine when you know someone a little better. If you genuinely want to meet people then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the ‘hi, I’m friendly’ flirting signals

  16. Online dating services generally require a prospective member to provide personal information, before they can search the service provider’s database for other individuals using criteria they set, such as age range, gender and location.

    Most sites allow members to upload photos of themselves and browse the photos of others.

    Ian Roger

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  19. I have had great experience with free dating sites. I have had a number of friends build relationships as a result of free online dating sites. I believe that FREE sites give you the flexibility to explore without having to pay for dating. I have done both paid a well as free sites. I find that I am able to join multiple sites for free and I don’t have the financial burden of paying for something and waiting to get my money back when i cancel the account on paid sites.

  20. Today, dating does not only mean meeting up in a restaurant. Men and women are looking for their date online that is why online dating techniques is one of the top searched topics on the Internet.

  21. Have you ever considered adding more videos to your blog posts to keep the readers more entertained? I mean I just read through the entire article of yours and it was quite good but since I’m more of a visual learner,I found that to be more helpful. Just my my idea, Good luck


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  23. Free Online Dating

    Great article. Keep up the good work.

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  26. Awesome article. I’m just getting back into the dating scene after breaking up with my waste-of-space boyfriend, and have turn to the online world to do this. So sick of the bar/club riff raff. I’m finding it hard to figure out which guys are legitimate and which guys are sleazebags. Read a great article to help me get inside the mind of a guy, but even so, online dating is sooooo frustrating! Been on almost ten dates now, and while some guys were nice, none were really what I was looking for :(

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